Relationship advice from an AI coach that actually remembers your story
Talk it through in Coach Chat. Rehearse the hard conversation in Partner Practice. Two tools, built on the frameworks real therapists use — available the moment you need them.
Free to start · No credit card · Opening soon
Everything is built around one goal: a better conversation
Coach Chat helps you understand what's going on and what to say. Partner Practice lets you say it out loud first.
A coach that already knows your story
Describe what's happening the way you'd tell a friend. Coach Chat remembers your partner, your history and last week's fight — so you never start from scratch — and gives you specific next steps instead of vague reassurance.
- Remembers your relationship across conversations, and picks up exactly where you left off
- Spots recurring patterns you might not notice on your own
- Helps you find the words — and lets you attach screenshots or documents for context
- Available 24/7, even at 2am, with no waitlist to join
Rehearse the hard conversation before it's real
Describe your partner, then practice what you want to say with an AI that stays in character — including the realistic friction. When you're done, you get a short, honest debrief aimed at the real conversation still ahead.
- An AI that plays your partner based on the personality you describe — and what it's learned from your chats
- A clear debrief after each rehearsal: what went well, what to watch for, one thing to try differently
- Switch roles to hear how your own words might land on the receiving end
- Completely private. It's never in contact with your real partner and nothing is shared with them
Small extras that make the core tools better
Therapist-ready summary
Turn any Coach Chat conversation into a structured page you can hand to a therapist — yours to download or print, never sent anywhere automatically.
Weekly insights
A short digest of the patterns showing up across your conversations, delivered to you automatically.
Daily question
An optional daily prompt to reflect on — alone, or together once you link a partner's account.
Relationship support has always come with a catch
None of the usual options are built for the moment you need them.
Therapy has a waitlist
Good couples therapists are booked out for weeks and cost €50–€150 a session. The argument you're having tonight can't wait for the 14th.
Generic chatbots forget you exist
Ask a general AI assistant for relationship advice and you're re-explaining your partner, your history and last week's fight — from scratch, every time.
Journaling doesn't rehearse anything
Writing down how you feel helps you process it. It doesn't tell you whether what you're about to say will land the way you mean it to.
A clearer head in 3 steps
Tell it what's going on
Write naturally, like you would to a friend. The coach asks follow-up questions when it needs more context.
Work it through in Coach Chat
Get specific, grounded next steps — and help finding words that sound like you, not a script.
Rehearse it in Partner Practice
Say it out loud first, get a short debrief, and walk into the real conversation prepared. Nothing is lost between sessions.
Not a replacement for therapy. Not a generic chatbot either.
RelationshipAI sits deliberately in between — more available than a therapist, more useful than a general-purpose AI assistant.
| RelationshipAI | General AI chatbot | Couples therapy | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Available 24/7 | Yes | Yes | No |
| Remembers your specific relationship | Yes | No | Yes |
| Grounded in a real coaching framework | Yes | Sometimes | Yes |
| Lets you rehearse the actual conversation | Yes | No | No |
| Generates a therapist-ready summary | Yes | No | N/A |
| Wait time to get support | None | None | Days to weeks |
| Cost | €0–€19.99/mo | Free–€20/mo | €50–€150/session |
RelationshipAI isn't a substitute for a licensed therapist — it's what's actually available at 11pm on a Tuesday, when you need to think something through before it becomes a bigger conversation.
Start free. Upgrade when it's earning its place.
Every plan includes Coach Chat and Partner Practice. Upgrading removes the limits — and Premium adds our most advanced AI model.
Free
Free forever
Enough to feel the difference — no card required.
- Coach Chat: 8 messages a day
- Partner Practice: 1 full rehearsal, with debrief
- 3 file or photo attachments
- Unlimited conversation history
- Daily check-in & daily question
Pro
Billed monthly
The full Coach Chat and Partner Practice experience — about the price of a coffee a week.
- Coach Chat: no daily cap (fair-use applies)
- Partner Practice: unlimited rehearsals, up to 5 partner profiles
- Up to 3 files per message
- Weekly relationship insights, delivered automatically
- Unlimited therapist-summary exports
Premium
Billed monthly
Everything in Pro, on our most advanced AI model — for noticeably deeper, more nuanced coaching.
- Everything in Pro
- Most advanced AI model in Coach Chat and Partner Practice
- Unlimited partner profiles
- Up to 5 files per message
- Priority email support
Prices in EUR. Launch pricing preview — plans open when RelationshipAI does. Cancel or switch anytime.
What you tell it stays yours
Passwords, properly hashed
Hashed with bcrypt — never stored in plain text, ever.
Private by default
Only you can see your conversations once you're logged into your account.
Never sold, never shared
Your conversations aren't handed to advertisers or third parties — full stop.
Cancel in one click
No contracts, no retention calls — manage or cancel anytime from your account page.
We'd rather be useful than exciting
RelationshipAI isn't trying to be your AI best friend or a novelty companion app. It has one job: help you think more clearly about your relationship, and hand you words that land better than the ones you'd have found on your own. No manufactured urgency to keep you chatting longer than you need to — just a coach that's ready when you are, grounded in methods real therapists actually use, and honest about where its job ends and a professional's begins.
— Built by Jonas, after one too many 11pm conversations that would've gone better with a clearer head.
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When does RelationshipAI open?
Soon. We're putting the finishing touches on it and checking how many people are interested before we open the doors. Clicking any "Get early access" button is counted — anonymously — and helps us decide how quickly to open.
Is RelationshipAI a replacement for therapy?
No. RelationshipAI is a self-improvement tool for immediate support between therapy sessions, or when therapy isn't accessible. For serious issues, abuse, or a crisis situation, we always recommend seeking a professional.
What is Coach Chat?
Coach Chat is the main conversation with your AI relationship coach. You describe what's going on, and it asks follow-up questions, remembers your story across conversations, notices recurring patterns, and helps you work out concrete next steps and the words to use.
What is Partner Practice — and is it actually talking to my partner?
No, it never talks to your real partner. You describe your partner's personality and the AI plays them as a private rehearsal space, including realistic friction. After each rehearsal you get a short debrief — what went well, what to watch for, and one thing to try differently. Nothing you practice is shared with anyone.
Does RelationshipAI work for any kind of relationship?
Yes — dating, long-term, married, long-distance, or non-monogamous relationships. The coaching adapts to what you tell it about your specific situation rather than following a fixed script.
What if my partner doesn't want to use it?
That's completely fine — RelationshipAI works even if you're the only one using it. Most change in a relationship starts with how one person shows up differently, and Partner Practice exists so you can prepare for real conversations solo.
Are my conversations private?
Yes. Only you can see your conversations once you're logged into your account, and we never share them with third parties.
What happens when I hit a Free plan limit?
Coach Chat's daily limit resets every day — you'll get a friendly heads-up and can pick back up tomorrow, nothing is lost. Partner Practice and file attachments are a handful of free tries (1 practice rehearsal, 3 attachments) rather than a daily reset. Your full conversation history is never affected either way.
What's the difference between Pro and Premium?
Pro removes the Free-plan limits: no daily cap on Coach Chat (a generous monthly fair-use limit applies), unlimited Partner Practice rehearsals with up to 5 partner profiles, up to 3 files per message, weekly relationship insights and unlimited therapist-summary exports. Premium includes everything in Pro and switches Coach Chat and Partner Practice to our most advanced AI model, plus unlimited partner profiles, 5 files per message and priority email support.
Can I cancel anytime?
Yes — no commitment, no hidden conditions. Cancel or switch plans anytime from your account page, and you'll keep access until the end of your current billing period. Yearly plans include a 7-day money-back guarantee, just like monthly ones.
What AI model does it use?
Free and Pro run on OpenAI's GPT-4o mini, with a prompt tuned specifically for relationship coaching — fast and plenty capable for day-to-day use. Premium subscribers get full GPT-4o on Coach Chat and Partner Practice for more nuanced, specific responses.
Is there a mobile app?
Not yet — RelationshipAI runs entirely in your browser and works well on mobile browsers in the meantime.